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bixue's entry

i'm so qi abt the people on *** *** *** ****. they are a bunch of brainless idiots. especially that irritating girl full of pimples and the middle age crisis uncle. anw. the topic was on permarital sex.or sth similar.

they think that its alright or sth. GRRR.

FIRSTLY. do you think you love the person whom you have sex with when u r 15 or ur hubby more?(considering that u didnt have to marry him cause u r pregnant from permarital sex) so of cause u want to offer the best thing u can to the person u love most right? and i think the person will appreciate that. even if the tempo 'dont match'. sex isnt everything. two people who really love each other dont need to have sex to stay together.(lyk i bet ur grandparents didnt have sex for the last 30 yrs of their lives and still stayed together) if the love between the two of you is so vulnerable that it cant even tolerate a sexless lifethen i doubt its love. (think abt those couples with one of them impotent or have some illness that dont allow them to have sex)

SECONDLY. there's no point in marriage they say. so obviously they are TOO INNOcent to appreciate how sacred marriage can be. its the securing of a promise that is SUPPOSE to last forever. if you dont love the person enough to give him/her a status in you life, not enough to want to claim the person as yours or not enough to bond the two together infront of god. then obviously he/she is not THE ONE. and when you DIVORCE. you are not the only one who gets hur. people around you will get hurt to. didnt someone just said that her distrust in marriage is caused by her parents? well, maybe you can try preventing your child from doing the same.

THIRDLY. whats the whole thing about just 'trying it out'? would you want the one you are gonna spend ur life with to share her first night with you? of cause right? then dont go around ruining other people's THE ONE when you want yours to be prue. idiots.

FORTHLY. follow your own feelings. does that mean that i can murder all of you all right now cause i dont like ur pooints of views? no right. or you can say that i can but i have to pay for it. of cause. SO PAY FOR IT. marry the girl you do it with or dont do it at all. girls who dunno how to treasure themselves are disgusting. giving in doesnt mean the guy will stay with you. infact, you'll seem so cheap that he'll tell all his friends so they can try you out too. well well, isnt that wat you are asking for?

sigh. why didnt this topic come up for expo test? i would haave done so well. sigh.

xue-

passing castle taken from coach

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Sunrise at Dalefort Field Centre

Click on the sunrise picture to view all the pictures taken by me for this trip=)

enjoy. i will blog abt the trip at a later date. Can't wait? Read ning's blog first. hahas.

The True You

You want your girlfriend or boyfriend to be more relaxed, calm, and composed.

With respect to money, you spend carefully and save your pennies.

You think good luck might come your way, but if it does you'll be so surprised you'll burst out laughing.

The hidden side of your personality tends to be methodical in your ways - with trouble adapting to the rules of society.

You are tend to think about others' feelings a lot, perhaps because you are so eager to be liked.

When it comes to finding a romantic partner, you will search and search until you find your perfect match.

Who's" the True You?